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Elisabeth posted a condolence
Thursday, December 30, 2021
It’s been 18 years ago today! 18 long years! Our beautiful baby girl is now almost 20, she is in her second year of college and one of the most incredible women I have ever known! I miss u so much! I love you bub! Love you forever and always, your sweets!!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Monday, November 26, 2012
hey sweet heart sorry im late HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I am up at saras tonight been up sense thanksgiving, life is kinda hard right now! I was going through some stuff here and found some things of yours! it was nice to read the notes we wrote back and forth all those years ago but they also made me miss u that much more! there is not a day i dont think about u! you should see all the kids! they are so big! can u belive A-J is going to be 16?? i cant time has just flown by! Bryanna talks about u all the time! she loves her uncle bub and says that u are always watching over her! i know in my heart she is right! Trinidi is getting big to she asks about u so much! well i hate to go but i must the kids will have me up at the crack of dawn im sure! I LOVE U 4 ever and Always! love sweetes!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, August 3, 2012
hello sweet heart, sorry its been so long, life has been kinda crazy, than again you already know that don't you! First and for most sorry its late, but happy 10 year anniversary baby! Hard to believe its been 10 years already! Our little lady is getting so big! she got braces back in June and if she gets much taller she will beat my height by the time she hits her teen years for sure! She still looks just like her mommy! I am so proud of her! I miss you hunny so much more than anyone will ever know, I try so hard everyday to put on this rock hard front so that she will never know but there are still days i find it hard to believe i haven't woke up from this night mare yet! Well I better go I'm getting really upset and i just cant take it right now! i will try to write more later today! I love you baby!!!! Love your sweets!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, January 28, 2012
hello sweet heart, school is going good so far, Trinidi is getting bigger by the day! i miss u more and more with every passing day, i cant wait for the day when i can hold you in my arms again! i am trying to go thru life the best i can but some days it just feels impossible and than others seem easyer, i dont think it will ever get so the easy days out way the bad ones! Your sister in law needs your gudince quite a but right now i think she is more confussed about life than i am! Please watch over her and John and the kids and help her to make the decitions that are best for there family! well i have an early class tomorrow so i need to go to bed Ill see u in my dreams! I love you! Love ur sweets!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Monday, November 28, 2011
hey sweet heart, happy belated 40th birthday, i tried posting on ur b-day but the i pad was not cooperating, im at school, now just reg for my spring classes! i wish u could be here to see how hard im trying and to help me when things get so hard! full cup this semester im taking chem, bio, geology and calc. and thru in a PE class to top it all off, 16 credit hours! go me! Trinidi is doing great, i still cant believe she is going to be 10 this summer, it just doesnt seem that long ago, it seems like only yesterday i had u in my arms, where did the time go? well i better get going, i will write again really soon i promiss, miss and love you soo much! love sweets!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Hello my love, thanksgiving is tomorrow, i miss u most this time of year, everyone said it would get easyer with time, but its not there isnt a day that goes by that i wouldnt give anything to have u back in my arms! U were so much more to me than a husband, u were my best friend my soul mate! I want to see u the other day, just sat there looking up at the bright blue sky thinking of u i can still see every detail of u like it was only yesterday u were taken from me, i try to be stronge, for trinidi, but its so dam hard, its just not fair, i love u so much, i stoped in fabius on my way to tully, i even pulled in our old drive way and the farm, it was hard seeing the house, the yard where we got marryed the place where we first met, the places where i fell in love with the most wonderfull man ever to exist, i thought about going to find ur dad at the barn or his house, but i didnt know what i would say if i did, i also spoke to the man at the cemetary, we r going to try to get a real stone up, u desurve the best in the world, and i wish i could afford to give it to u! Well i was there i found out about uncle rusty, at least u have him with u now, i know someday we will be together again, and i can not wait till then, well i better get going, i miss u and love u with all my heart and soul, i will be YOUR wife for all eturnity love ur sweets!!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, December 19, 2010
hello all this post is directed toward the golden family, i would really like to get ahold of any of you so that we can catch up and Trinidi would love to see all of you! regardless of what may have happend all those years ago you will all always be our family please get ahold of me asap my phone number is 315-921-5694 my address is 26 washington st apt 2 auburn ny 13021 and my email is edartgolden1984@yahoo.com thanks again!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, November 28, 2010
I just wanted to tell you that I love you Bub. There is not a day the past almost 7 years that I don't think of you and wish I could walk up to heaven and bring you home again. I miss you the most this time of year! It was your favorite time of year! I miss going to Shopping Town Mall and all over the place to get the perfect gifts for everyone! We had so much fun! Lol! I miss your smile and the warmth of your hug when my chips were down. I miss you telling me that it will be ok. I know that you are watching over your nieces and nephews. I know that you will keep them safe! I love you Bub. I can't wait until we are together again.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, November 26, 2010
Happy birthday daddy i love you! sorry im a day late! i miss you so much!!! i wish u could be here with me and mommy!! we both love u so much! i know i will see u in heaven someday untill than u will always be my gardean angel! love always your little girl Trinidi Elaine
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, November 26, 2010
well i almost made it i just wanted to stop in and say happy birthday my love! how i wish you had been here to celebrate with us! you are 39 today next year is 40! John hit 40 this year and oh man have i been picking on him!! while sorry i missed by a few min if only the com. was a little faster lol!! i love you baby happy birthday again! love always and for all eturnity! your sweets!!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
hey hunny i just wanted to wish you a happy thanksgiving, i love you so much! im spending the day with sara, john and all the kids! they are all growing up so fast Trinidi is in third grade now i cant beleave how fast time is flying by, i still remember our first thanksgiving together, when we had your family come over and how great your dads stuffing is!! i miss those times we shared together! Can you beleave that our little amanda-jane is now a teenager?? and squeek is now 10 and little john is 7! i was talking with john today about how much i wish you could have been here to meet Emily and Parker! Emily is my little who and Parker is our little man they are 5 and 3, yes sara and john have 5 now, hey hes your best friend lol!! tomarrow is your 39th birthday, john turned 40 in sep and im still picking on him about it! well i got to go get ready for dinner wish you were here eating with all of us! we all love you and miss you! happy birthday tomarrow if i dont get a chance to write again!! i love you baby! love your sweets!!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, September 3, 2010
well our little lady turned 8 on tuesday, we had a party last sunday at moms house, she had a high school musical theme! she is in love with taylor swift too! I just wanted to come here and tell u that i love u so much and i still miss u more than anyone will ever know! I am trying so hard to be strong for our little girl but some times i just want to end it all so i can come be with u but i know that would not be fare to her or anyone else! i wish u were still here with me, u taught me what true love is and i still truly love u with my whole heart! i know u are watching over me my love please give me strangth to do the right thing because i am not sure what that is right now! well im going to go before i cry! i miss u and love u more everyday! Love your sweets!!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
hi hun, i was just sitting here thinking of you so i decided to come here and leave another message!! also re read the last candel i wrote and relized i made a mistake it is supose to be you can count on that one! well i am sure you knew what i ment! life is real hard for me right now hun, i wish so much that u were still here with me, i know u are always with me, but i wish you could hold me again! I love you with all my heart and i always will!! Trinidi is doing great! she's still talking about u every day, and like me there are certin songs she can not hear with out breaking out in tears!! well it is 4:10 in the morning and i should be sleeping so i will see you in my dreams! I LOVE YOU! love ur sweets!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, December 3, 2009
well Hun its Dec. 4th so i am sitting here staring out the window and thinking of you! i spent thanksgiving your birthday this year with Sara and john a much needed brake from everyday life!! they are doing better the kids are back home now where they belong thank u so much for being there for them and for me i know when ever life gets to hard all i have to do is close my eyes and i can feel ur arms around me! Trinidi is doing great she was a witch for Halloween this year she is getting so big!! she talks about u everyday still she really loves her daddy you cant count on that one!! she has a photo album mom made her with pictures form our first Christmas and some other great ones of you!!! I demanded she make me copy's as well lol! well i am afrade i have to go for now i just wanted to drop in and wish you a happy belated birthday and thanksgiving and let you know that u are in my heart always i miss you more than words will ever say i love you!!! love your sweets
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Happy Birthday Bub Happy Thanksgiving aswell. WE all love and miss you very much everyday. Love Always, Barry
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Hi Bub it is me your baby sister! I miss you very very much but I know that you are with me always! Thank you for the strength to get my life back on track and thank you for the warnings that you gave me about my life before you passed on and in your after life! I love you Bub and someday we will be together again.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, July 10, 2009
sorry it has been so long sance i was here last life has been a little crazy! Trinidi is getting so big she will be 7 next month can u beleave that 7, time is just flying by!!! I wish u were here everyday to see the beautiful little lady she is becomeing i know u see her and u are watching over us but i still wish u were with us, she asks about u all the time says she misses u and that she wishs daddy hadnt gotten sick, some times i just dont know what to say because i feel the same way, it is so hard being strong for her she has so many questions about u and i do my best to answer them all, I tell Her every time that u loved her more than any daddy has ever loved their daughter and that u are up in heaven with great grandma waiting for us! Please give your best friend some guidence through life he needs u now more than ever! Please help me to get through this tuff time to cause i just dont think i can do it with out you!! I LOVE U 4ETUrNITY!!!! Love your sweets!!Ps: i dont know if anyone is still coming here or not but i would really like it if any of you would get ahold of me Trinidi would love to see her family and i would also like to speek with u my e-mail address is edartgolden1984@yahoo.com
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 25, 2007
Merry Christmas Bub, We miss you so very much. We all had a green Christmas which was nice for the people who had to travel to be with their families. All the kids were at Dad's this year which I am greatful for. I know it's still hard on Dad that you have moved on. Bub please watch over Bar. He is going thru a rough time again. He is home with Dad and I am happy he is. I don't like Dad being alone. Amy is doing great as is Rob and his family. Angel still needs you to watch over her. She is holding her own but, it's so hard on her somedays. I pray day and night for her and the kids as well as Bar. I am doing well, Christmas was wonderful. I decorated the house and baked all the goodies and everything came out perfect, the first time in a very long time. Thankyou Bub :). I know you helped me :). I played the Christmas Carols which I hadn't played in a long time while I prepared everything and yes I wore my Santa hat lol. The Christmas I remembered of you was the one when you were just 1 year old and the one when you were 5-6 years old all dressed in your cowboy outfit, and your band concerts. You so loved Christmas just like me. The smells from the kitchen, the pretty lights, the music and most of all being with the family. I will always miss that dearly. When I felt so sad this year that I didn't think I could go Christmas shopping. I remembered how sick you were and in a wheel chair and you went Christmas shopping for everyone. It made you so happy to do that just one last time. I pulled myself together and put a big smile on my face and thanked God that I was able to go Christmas shopping. So see Bub, you are still very much a huge part of our lives. We love you so very much. Bub, thankyou for watching over me. Your memories help me get thru the tough days. I can still see your bright smile and your beautiful blue eyes twinkle when you laugh. Merry Christmas Sweetie. I blew you a Bufferfly kiss out the patio door. Merry Christmas love Mom XXXXOOOO
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy 36 Birthday Bub. I think of you often and miss you alot. I love you, Amy
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy 36 Birthday Bub, I think of you often and miss you alot. I love you, Barry
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy 36 Birthday Bro. I too think of you often and miss you alot. I love you, Rob
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy 36 Birthday Bub. I too think of you often and miss you alot. Everything on the farm is doing good. I love you, Dad
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy 36 Birthday Bernie. I think of you often and miss you alot. I love you Bernie. Your baby sister, Angella
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy 36 Birthday Bubby. Today I light your Special Birthday Candle. I love you tons Bubby. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Love Always, Mom
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Happy Thanksgiving Bub. Grandpa called and he is doing super. Looks like everyone will be at Dad's for Thanksgiving. Thankyou sooooo much for all your help!!! Bar is doing better too thankyou, thankyou, thankyou. This Thanksgiving will be one I remember for a long time. Dinner turned out great and thankyou for your help with the turkey. It was perfect. We will have dessert tonight. Miss you sweetie and love you sooooooooo much. Happy Thanksgiving and Thankyou agsin soooooo much for helping to make our Holiday a very very Happy One. We love you Bub. Love Mom XXXXOOOO
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Happy Thanksgiving Eve 2007 Sweetie. We all miss you terribly. We try so hard to just get thru each day. The Holidays are especially difficult. Like always not everyone is home like it used to be when you were little. So not only do we miss you not being here, we also miss the ones that choose to go to the in-laws for Holidays. It is more than I can handle emotionally. Everyone is just falling apart. I pray everyday for God to watch over everyone and to keep them safe. Dad tries his hardest to keep the Family afloat. I am forever greatful for that. I know you watch over everyone also and Thankyou sooooooo much. Well, Honey a Butterfly kiss on your cheek and I will talk to you tomorrow. I Love You Tons. XXXXOOOO Mom
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Bub it's Mom. I have another special request for you. Please look over Bar. He is going thru a very rough time right now. I am sooooo worried about him. He has always been the one to go the extra mile and accomplish anything he sets his mind to. The obsticals have just been too great this time. He will bounce back. It just breaks my heart to know how much he is hurting. Please watch over Bar and give him that smile of yours that says Bar it will all work out. Bub we need you soooooooooo much!!!! I have to go crying too hard to see to type. I love you Bub XXXXOOOO Mom
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
hey i was just thinking about u today and i wanted to let u know i love u and miss you so much! Trinidi started kindergarden this year! She is sooo smart! i know you are watching over us and i know i will see you again someday but it is still hard everyday for a few secondes when i first wake up i forget that u are gone but than i relize what reaility is and that u are not next to me! I moved into my own place a couple of months ago and as i started to unback i started to find stuff from when we were in the hospital. it made me cry to read over the stuff u wrote me i know no one will ever love me the way u do! well it is 1:30 in the morning and i need to go! I will stop back ASAP! I LOVE U 4 ALL ETURNITY! love ur sweets!Sharron: hi how are u? if u could please give me a call i would love to talk to you about getting bubby a headstone i tried to get in touch with Amy but failed! My phone number is 681-4600!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, September 28, 2007
Hi Sweetie, I sure miss you tons. I think of you everyday and pray you are finally happy and at peace. I have a special favor to ask of you Bub, please look over Angel. She is going thru a rough time and needs all the Family support she can get. She needs to know and feel everyone of is there for her. I pray everyday to God that he please look out for her and guide her thru this rough time. Thankyou soooooo much Bub. Well sweetie it's getting late and I am turning in. I love you tons. Talk soon, Mom XXXXOOOO
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, July 22, 2006
For my loving brother, It has been 21/2 years since you passed. I have not lit a candle for you until now because I have been so angry and sad that you are gone. I remember alot of our years together. Some bad and some good. The good definately out weighed the bad. I am glad to see all the nice things everyone had to say about you. I was never angry at you for going. I am glad that you are not hurting or sick any longer. I was only angry with how you passed. I am sad that I do not have my big brother any longer. I am holding on to the memories that he made together with all the rest of our brothers and sister. They will never be forgotten. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and all that you were. It is like our brothers, sister, and myself are not whole without you in our lives. There is alot of things that we don't do anymore and I think the reason is because we all are scared to find out what it is going to feel like without all of us there. I love you Bernie with all my heart. I am sorry that we don't have you in our lives but we will never be without you in our hearts and memories. Love your baby sister, Angella
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2006
Hi Bub,This is your brother Barry. It has been nearly 3 years since you passed and I miss you just as much now as I did then. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and have a tear fall. I'm having trouble writing this without crying. Anyone who knew bub weather you were family a friend or just a stranger knew he would do anything for anyone he would put his health and life in jeapardy for anyone who needed his help. I should know Bub helped me out more than I can count and for that I am truely greatful. Bub and myself are so much alike we both love sports, like funny movies, we both love to laugh and so much more. When Bub passed not only did I lose a brother but I also lost my best friend. We used to go to Syracuse crunch hockey games. We used to play pool and darts til all hours of the night. We would both wistle at the same girls as we would drive down the streets in Syracuse or Liverpool or where ever we were driving at the time. Bub was always there in school whenever someone would pick on me when he was around no one said anything because they knew Bub would beat them up. Well Bub I will write again. I miss you very much and I will always love you with all of my heart. Love your brother Barry
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, March 4, 2006
well it is so nice to see that i am not the only one still visting this sight! well it may be getting easyer to read what we wrote to years ago it still brings me to tears! I miss u sooo much! You will always be in my heart my first and only true love my eturnal soul mate! The father of our little girl! she is getting soooo big now but i am sure u are looking down on her and smileing! She is so smart just like u! I talked with ur mom a while back and i wish i could get in touch with her more often! I love u! see u in my dreams! love always your sweets!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 23, 2005
Thanksgiving Evening I am sure missing you today. Thou it is getting a little easier, my heart still aches for you. I Love you tons XXXXOOOO
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 23, 2005
Happy Thanksgiving my dear Bub. I love you. XXXXOOOO
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2005
I love you. It's been almost 2 years since you went to Heaven. I am finally able to light you another candle. The happy memories are starting to help heal me. I was devistated to have you leave. My inner soul died with you. I couldn't imagine living without my beloved son. You gave me sooooooo much pride, hope and completed my being. I pray eveyday for the strength to carry on. Knowing you are at peace and finally happy and well. I still miss you more than I can say. I miss your gentle hug, that beautiful smile that lit my whole world. Well, my Bub this is all I can handle for right now. I will write again soon. The White Sox won the World Series and the leaves on the trees are in full color. Halloween is in 2 days. I decorated the house like I used to when you were little. I love you soooooooo much. XXXXOOOO talk later, Mom :)
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2005
Dear Bub, a rose for you and another lit candle to help light their way in dealing with your departure for Rob, Barry, Angel, Amy and Dad. We all love you sooooooooooo much.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, February 14, 2004
you will be sadly missed. i worked with bernie in oswego at aplus he was a great person.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Monday, February 2, 2004
well Bub you are finally at rest now. now please don'twork to hard up there. and if you think about get me an john one of your 8 point bucks you always talked about. well see you on the other side. you are missed.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 7, 2004
I would first like to thank all who have already left a light glowing in memorie of my husbeen! As it has been said he was with out a doubt a wonderful man! Bub- words can not exspress what u mean to me! You were my lover and my best friend, you would have done anything for me and your family and you faught so hard! You would not take no when it came to comming home for christmas and well it was for you i think deep down your reason was because you knew how much it ment to me! It was my christmas present all i could have asked for was you! You did so much for me and no madder what happens you will always be my true love! I know you will be with me and trinidi elaine always! You had the biggest heart but that is not what made you such a perfect man "and u were perfect!" what made u that way was the fact that no madder how hard it got u kept fighting and never bitched even once about how hard life was for u! No madder how sick u were when u went through treetment u still worked and wanted to support your family! You did support us bubby even when you werent working you were there 100% no madder what and i can NEVER thank u for all u have done and given me! I miss you sooooo much my love for all eternaty, Yours sweets! To Bernie and Sharan:u will always be mom and dad to me and grandma and grandpa to trinidi thank u for bring the perfect person in to this world and alowing me to be a part of his life, i am forever in debt to u for alowing me to have the perfect husbeen and trinidi the perfect daddy! thank u all again!
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, January 4, 2004
We will miss him dearly.Out thoughts are with you,Love5South
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, January 3, 2004
i am very sorry for your loss of bernie. I am danielle taylor's younger sister. We are very sorry we could not make it to his services for we just buried my father well best wishes to all of you.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, January 2, 2004
Rest in peace MY son. I love you so very very much.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, January 2, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Bub we know that you will be watching over us and will keeping us from trouble. We will miss you sweet cousin but we know in our hearts that you are no longer hurting and you will never hurt again. May you rest in peace our sweet cousin---just remember don't get into to much trouble with Grandpa G. LOVE YOU ALWAYS
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, January 2, 2004
Bub, I remember the night you were born. I remember your dedication ceremony. I remember when you learned to sit up, to crawl, and to walk. I was so proud of you, you were my 1st nephew. I remember walking you in the stroller up and down RT91 to give your mom a break. I remember you turning on the stove at my 1st apartment and how your daddy scolded you so. I said that's okay he didn't realise what he did, he was only 3 at the time. I remember your 1st day of kindergarden. I remember when you learned to ride a bike. I remember you going over to the barn to help your dad do chores. I remember your bright blue eyes as you looked at me when we would visit. I remember your hearty laugh. I still have the gold necklace that I bought from you when you were in highschool. You were such a good salesman. I remember how much your family ment to you. I remember how much you ment to all of us. Bubby, I miss you and love you with all my heart. I will never forget you my dear nephew, may God take you in his arms and protect you! Love Always, Aunt Jayne oxoxoxoxoxox
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, January 2, 2004
Bub was and still is a Great guy, Great friend, and all around wonderful person. We will miss you so very much but will always remember you with our hearts and thoughts every passing day.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, January 2, 2004
Bernie & Sharon, Bobby & Barry, I've been out of touch for so long. In my heart Bubbie will always be that little blonde, curly headed tornado running from one end of the trailer to the other. My heart breaks thinking of all you've been going through, and the pain you're facing. Know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. Much love and peace to you all. - Deb
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, January 2, 2004
Bub was a gentle man and he was not afried or ashamed to show it-a person could see it eveytime he was with his family and the way he lived his life to the fullest. He was always there to lend a helping hand to those in need wether it be family or a stranger. Bub once told me that he did not believe that the world had strangers in it just friends that we have not met yet. And that statement I believe to be true. Although he is gone his shining eyes, warm smile and his gentleness will never be forgotten.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, January 1, 2004
Sharon & Bernie...So sorry Bubba has passed on. I know words can't ease the pain, but I am praying for him and you and your family. I'm not able to attend the wake or funeral as I'm recovering from bypass surgery. You're in my prayers.
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